Most of the time, Mothers are left to take full responsibilities of the children, to play both the role of the father and the look after. Often, the head or the father is in the part of the world, with 
the purpose of earning more and to support the needs of his family. This is mostly the case in Asian countries. And this is the case with my couple friends, Janice Fulgueras full time mom and Michael Fulgueras, loyal husband and father, who is working in Brunei Darussalam. Quite stressful for Janice or moms because they are the one left home with kids. So, here are little help and tips on how to lessen the pressure of being alone bringing up the children ;)
Make a schedule, for your motherly life to be less stressful. For everything that should be done, make a list. Mothers are often leaving no time to rest. But you can lessen your work, such as preparing meals ahead, then you can just reheat the prepared meal, this will give you time to relax or spend longer time with the kids. Play with your kids. This is as well the best time to interact with your children, to recognize the negative sides and help them to overcome such pessimistic aspect. Doing home chores is not an easy task, so mothers, as early as possible train your children to help you with the house hold chores. Training could be fun and educational at the same. Make some strategies for it not to be boring.
If you want time to relax with your fellow mothers or girlfriends, set a day to have coffee with them or perhaps invite them to come over and catch up, this can even bring closer bond between your kids and your friends. As mothers, you need to make time for yourself; you deserve to be revived, doing stuff that will make you feel pleased. Mothers, unwind and be happy, for you to be a better person and a great Mommy to your children.BE HEALTHY!!
the purpose of earning more and to support the needs of his family. This is mostly the case in Asian countries. And this is the case with my couple friends, Janice Fulgueras full time mom and Michael Fulgueras, loyal husband and father, who is working in Brunei Darussalam. Quite stressful for Janice or moms because they are the one left home with kids. So, here are little help and tips on how to lessen the pressure of being alone bringing up the children ;)Make a schedule, for your motherly life to be less stressful. For everything that should be done, make a list. Mothers are often leaving no time to rest. But you can lessen your work, such as preparing meals ahead, then you can just reheat the prepared meal, this will give you time to relax or spend longer time with the kids. Play with your kids. This is as well the best time to interact with your children, to recognize the negative sides and help them to overcome such pessimistic aspect. Doing home chores is not an easy task, so mothers, as early as possible train your children to help you with the house hold chores. Training could be fun and educational at the same. Make some strategies for it not to be boring.
If you want time to relax with your fellow mothers or girlfriends, set a day to have coffee with them or perhaps invite them to come over and catch up, this can even bring closer bond between your kids and your friends. As mothers, you need to make time for yourself; you deserve to be revived, doing stuff that will make you feel pleased. Mothers, unwind and be happy, for you to be a better person and a great Mommy to your children.BE HEALTHY!!
on picture - michael's family
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